Do you want to know what your child is really
thinking? Try asking great questions. Too many times we ask closed
questions that require only a “yes” or “no” answer. Does this sound
“How was school?” “Good”
“Do you have homework?” “No”
“How was the game” “Okay”
We need to learn to ask specific questions that
require thought and will encourage conversation. Why not try some of
* Was that test in Spanish as hard as you thought? What were
some of the questions on it? Which question was the hardest for you?
* Who scored the highest in the basketball game after
school? Were there any amazing plays?
* How many people came to Lindsay’s birthday party last
night? What kind of presents did she get.
a more personal level why not try asking things like:
* What do you think Heaven looks like?
* What kind of person would you like to marry?
* What’s the nicest thing I ever did for you?
* What’s the best thing you remember from your childhood?
* If you could travel anywhere in the world – where would you
like to visit? Why?
The list could go on and on…and it should! Why not make your
own and begin asking your child questions that will lead to meaningful
Patti Chadwick is the creator of
Family Tymes. She is also the creator of
History’s Women, an online
magazine highlighting the extraordinary achievements of women throughout
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